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There’s no job quite as 24/7 as that of a hands-on mom and often these days, soon after leaving the nest, the kids produce their own offspring and women go from full time moms to just about full time grans. This means that mothering becomes a lifelong vocation and most other interests suffer.
As illustrious and rewarding a career as this might be, one of the pitfalls is that we allow nurturing to take precedence over fostering the natural and healthy urges that earned us the status of motherhood in the first place.
Always bear in mind that a woman’s sexuality is one of the cornerstones of what makes us who we are and just because we’ve become semi-permanent care givers to future generations doesn’t mean that we should feel a sense of guilt for still needing and wanting to be desired and loved in our own right.
In fact quite the contrary; embracing ones sexuality is nothing short of sacred. Look at women like Stacy and Stifler’s moms, they never stopped flaunting their sensuality and became legends in the process.
We might not all aspire to being quite as brazen as they are but being a selfless martyr doesn’t do anyone any favours. No matter how precious ones children or how difficult it might be for them to see us as a sexual being, we should always find time to foster our own needs and those of our partners.
We women have a very strong desire for intimacy with our chosen significant other, so don’t let a happy event like having a child put the brakes on developing a rewarding love life.
Once the baby has arrived most couples are able and eager to resume their sexual relations relatively soon. Anatomically speaking, oral sex and masturbation are probably the safest places to start and then, once you are both back in the saddle, encourage each other with a relaxing massage using products like Sensual Cocoa Bean & Goji Berry Aromatherapy Massage Oil on the sensitive areas of your bodies. This will assist in easing you back in to penetrative sex once more.
Sometimes, after giving birth, regaining the strength of your pelvic floor muscles can be a challenge. As we grow older, these muscles lose some of their elasticity which can cause problems during penetration and when coughing or sneezing. The solution is to keep those PC muscles in shape and a feel-good way of doing this is with Je Joue Ami Ben-wa Balls.
These nifty little spheres, which can be regarded as both a sex toy and a physical therapy tool, will in no time, transform your PC muscles into bands of steel. They could mean the difference between resuming relations postpartum, with a mediocre or a mind-blowing sex life.
Always remember that sensuality isn’t just a physical act, but an emotional one too and feeling good about oneself and cherished by your mate, is a very important aspect of one’s wellbeing. So moms, set aside some me-time to rekindle the vixen in you.
Perhaps introducing something like a Princess Swan waterproof rabbit vibrator in to your bath or shower time to help remind you of what sort of stimulation turns you on best. This cute little sex toy is good for both alone time or to use as a couple and will enhance your capacity for giving and receiving pleasure.
Always value yourself enough to spare the time to take stock from the inside out. Make a conscious decision to invest more in sexual and sensual pleasure because, if encouraged, this will flourish and grow as you mature. After all, mothers were sexual beings before becoming moms and will still be this, even after all their chicks have finally left the nest.
Lady Fay's Boudoir, for lingerie and adults toys online
Lady Fay's Boudoir is an online lingerie and adult toy store created by a team of women as an antidote to the type of websites that make sexual exploration scary, tacky and generally unappealing to real women.
Give yourself permission to browse and shop according to your experience and the needs of your relationship.
Visit Lady Fay's Boudoir to view their range of sexy lingerie and couple’s sex toys.
As illustrious and rewarding a career as this might be, one of the pitfalls is that we allow nurturing to take precedence over fostering the natural and healthy urges that earned us the status of motherhood in the first place.
Always bear in mind that a woman’s sexuality is one of the cornerstones of what makes us who we are and just because we’ve become semi-permanent care givers to future generations doesn’t mean that we should feel a sense of guilt for still needing and wanting to be desired and loved in our own right.
In fact quite the contrary; embracing ones sexuality is nothing short of sacred. Look at women like Stacy and Stifler’s moms, they never stopped flaunting their sensuality and became legends in the process.
We might not all aspire to being quite as brazen as they are but being a selfless martyr doesn’t do anyone any favours. No matter how precious ones children or how difficult it might be for them to see us as a sexual being, we should always find time to foster our own needs and those of our partners.
We women have a very strong desire for intimacy with our chosen significant other, so don’t let a happy event like having a child put the brakes on developing a rewarding love life.
Once the baby has arrived most couples are able and eager to resume their sexual relations relatively soon. Anatomically speaking, oral sex and masturbation are probably the safest places to start and then, once you are both back in the saddle, encourage each other with a relaxing massage using products like Sensual Cocoa Bean & Goji Berry Aromatherapy Massage Oil on the sensitive areas of your bodies. This will assist in easing you back in to penetrative sex once more.
Sometimes, after giving birth, regaining the strength of your pelvic floor muscles can be a challenge. As we grow older, these muscles lose some of their elasticity which can cause problems during penetration and when coughing or sneezing. The solution is to keep those PC muscles in shape and a feel-good way of doing this is with Je Joue Ami Ben-wa Balls.
These nifty little spheres, which can be regarded as both a sex toy and a physical therapy tool, will in no time, transform your PC muscles into bands of steel. They could mean the difference between resuming relations postpartum, with a mediocre or a mind-blowing sex life.
Always remember that sensuality isn’t just a physical act, but an emotional one too and feeling good about oneself and cherished by your mate, is a very important aspect of one’s wellbeing. So moms, set aside some me-time to rekindle the vixen in you.
Perhaps introducing something like a Princess Swan waterproof rabbit vibrator in to your bath or shower time to help remind you of what sort of stimulation turns you on best. This cute little sex toy is good for both alone time or to use as a couple and will enhance your capacity for giving and receiving pleasure.
Always value yourself enough to spare the time to take stock from the inside out. Make a conscious decision to invest more in sexual and sensual pleasure because, if encouraged, this will flourish and grow as you mature. After all, mothers were sexual beings before becoming moms and will still be this, even after all their chicks have finally left the nest.
Lady Fay's Boudoir, for lingerie and adults toys online
Lady Fay's Boudoir is an online lingerie and adult toy store created by a team of women as an antidote to the type of websites that make sexual exploration scary, tacky and generally unappealing to real women.
Give yourself permission to browse and shop according to your experience and the needs of your relationship.
Visit Lady Fay's Boudoir to view their range of sexy lingerie and couple’s sex toys.
