What could be better than lying on your back with a man paying oral homage to your most sensitive areas, while your fantasies run rampant? Many women are only able to achieve orgasm through cunnilingus.
Why it's good for him:
The man who doesn't love fellatio doesn't exist. Most men agree that even a bad blow-job is better than no oral sex at all.
How to vary it:
Position 69 is where you lie upside down over him so you can both deliver oral sex at the same time. Alternatively, you sit on the end of the bed while he kneels in front of you on the floor, or better still, while he's lying on the bed, kneel over his face.
Drawbacks:
A problem can arise in a relationship when one partner wants oral sex and the other doesn't. No-one should be forced to perform oral sex because of emotional blackmail or the pleas of an inconsiderate lover. Oral sex performed out of a sense of obligation becomes an offensive chore, rather than the loving, sensual experience it can be. If your man expects fellatio, but acts as though he'd rather be lowered naked into a shark tank than return the favour, then perhaps it's time you found yourself a more willing partner. Fortunately, the majority of right-thinking men love giving a woman pleasure with their mouth.
Tips:
Never bite or blow into the genitals. Always hold his penis while sucking it, so you can control how much of him you want to take into your mouth. Always keep a tissue handy to spit into if you don't want to swallow his semen, or take your mouth away before he ejaculates. Men should always err on the side of gentleness and kiss the entire vulva before concentrating on the very sensitive clitoris. And for some extra fun, try anointing each other’s genitals in ice cream or chocolate.
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