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Sex: Spooning and cocooning

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Spoon sex:
Lie on your side with your bum pressed firmly against your partner's pelvis, your back against his chest and the back of your legs moulded to the front of his.

By tilting your pelvis up and down, you'll be rubbing yourself against his shaft. Mmm. Wiggle away and put one of your own, or one of his hands between your legs for clitoral stimulation.

When you're both ready, arch your back as far as it will go to allow access to your vagina.

He'll need to use his hands to guide himself in. Rock and roll, guys.

Pros:
This position is great for women who find doggy-style too impersonal, because spoon sex allows full body contact. His penis comes into direct contact with your g-spot.

Your man is also free to nuzzle your neck, whisper sweet or dirty words in your ear and fondle you from your throat to your knees. Grrr...

Feeling naughty?
If you're up for a little anal play, this might just be the easiest route to go. Remember to use water-based lubricants and condoms.

Cocooning:
Start as above. Then, when your ready for penetration, roll over onto your stomach with your man on your back. In order not to squeeze the life out of you he will have to brace himself on his forearms, thereby creating a safe and intimate cocoon.

Pros:
See above.

Cons:
You might feel a little claustrophobic, especially if your man is much bigger than you. Also you won't be able to kiss or touch him.

Have you tested these positions? And more importantly, do they work for you?

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