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Losing your virginity: guys

Over before it began

The only good thing about my first time is that it could only get better from there.
Sex is definitely improved with practice, and, I wonder if there is one male out there who can say that his first experience was a good one. Suffice to say, that mine was... how should I put it? Over before it began? Yeah that’s probably it...

6 thrusts and you’re out!

I was 21, she was 20. It was my first time, it was her third (or so she said...) We had been going out for about 3 months and she finally agreed to"let me in" for the first time. It lasted for about 50 seconds, or about 5 or 6 full thrusts before I came.She was gracious enough to tell me about how it's natural and it happens and not to worry... Fortunately, after a smoke and a laugh, I got it up again and lasted a whole whopping 3 minutes (give or take a few thrusts).

I felt like He-Man, like I was invicible! I wanted to scream out from the the top of of Castle Greyskull, "I am a Man!"
We continued to date for another 6 months, during which time I believed I had become a seasoned veteran and could easily make 5 minutes.

Aaah, the innocence of youth!


Volcano time

The feeling that surrounded my penis was overwhelming.
So overwhelming that it ended in a brief display of something that resembles a volcano.

Lazy Sundays

Considering the "promiscuously liberal pervert" I grew up to be, I was something of a late bloomer. I went through high school and puberty in the days before geekiness was considered cool. While I had a great group of friends girls kept me firmly boxed in the friend-zone. I used to joke that I play the shoulder-to-cry-on-role more usually reserved for the gay-best-friend much to my straight chagrin.

Things changed when I went to University at age 19, within the first week I met a girl I was having lovely conversations with after class each day and into the evening.  After a week, I asked her out on a date. We went to the movies. During the movie we made out. She was experienced and comfortable with herself and that same movie included my first nipple-kiss and mutual handjobs. Quite a first date on a Friday night. I believe we'd gone to see Meet Joe Black, but seriously...

I don't remember more than the first ten minutes or so of the movie (if you catch my drift).
We saw each other again that Sunday when I invited her for family lunch. As the day wore on, my parents went for their usual Sunday nap and we were alone in the background. We made out heavily and moved on to oral before sunset, by 7pm we had sex in the back yard next to the pool with Def Leppard's Vault playing in the background.

It was not a great experience. I've heard of girls having a painful first time - well it hurt me as a guy. I didn't know what I was doing exactly, clumsy with the angle etc. and I took quite a while to reach orgasm because it was frankly impossible until the pain subsided.

After I took her home, I was quiet and reserved all night, thinking about what had happened - which to my conservative upbringing was, at the time, a very huge thing.

The next day however, we both bunked our classes and spent the entire day in her room on the floor doing every position and activity we could think off.  By the end of the day, I was firmly addicted to sex an addiction I have made no effort to change to this day.
Lucky

So gentlemen? How was your first time? And read what the girls had to say...

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