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You bath, shave and fine-tune your make-up. You're a great catch, you think, and tonight's festivities will definitely secure at least one future date.
And you’re right; heads do turn as you make your way into the club. But, one hour in and four or five double martinis later, all you seem to be attracting are a bunch of rejections, snide advances from trashy-looking drunkards AND *horrors* a ‘look-at-me-getting-my-groove-on’ smile from your BFF who's one-upped you and scored a rather gorgeous Italian bloke.
You're not impressed.
1. Why isn’t your flirting techniques working?
2. What makes YOU less approachable? And...
3. Why aren’t the men lining up to start a conversation?
Well...
• Sitting with your chin in the palm of your hand will get you nowhere. You have to be proactive!
• And honestly? Those tacky pick-up lines won't get you far either. Start off with subtle advance and then – when things get heated between the two of you - attempt Dr. Eve’s sexy talk tips.
• Think you’re better than everyone else? Nobody finds vanity and narcissism attractive.
• Got the confidence? Great! Remember, though, that there's a fine line between being sure of yourself (a good trait) and coming across as arrogant – be careful NOT to cross it.
• Too many shots? Getting someone to fall for you is all good and well. But, falling all over yourself... not so much.
New on the scene?
Check out our Women’s Guide to Flirting and our Top 10 Dating Tips for ideas on where and how to start!
And you’re right; heads do turn as you make your way into the club. But, one hour in and four or five double martinis later, all you seem to be attracting are a bunch of rejections, snide advances from trashy-looking drunkards AND *horrors* a ‘look-at-me-getting-my-groove-on’ smile from your BFF who's one-upped you and scored a rather gorgeous Italian bloke.
You're not impressed.
1. Why isn’t your flirting techniques working?
2. What makes YOU less approachable? And...
3. Why aren’t the men lining up to start a conversation?
Well...
• Sitting with your chin in the palm of your hand will get you nowhere. You have to be proactive!
• And honestly? Those tacky pick-up lines won't get you far either. Start off with subtle advance and then – when things get heated between the two of you - attempt Dr. Eve’s sexy talk tips.
• Think you’re better than everyone else? Nobody finds vanity and narcissism attractive.
• Got the confidence? Great! Remember, though, that there's a fine line between being sure of yourself (a good trait) and coming across as arrogant – be careful NOT to cross it.
• Too many shots? Getting someone to fall for you is all good and well. But, falling all over yourself... not so much.
New on the scene?
Check out our Women’s Guide to Flirting and our Top 10 Dating Tips for ideas on where and how to start!
