OPINION | How we talk to young boys is key to curbing the GBV scourge in South Africa

The experiences of boys in their childhood will influence the men they become. This is why we need to consider the behaviours they are exposed to and the conversations we are having with them while there is still time to shape their thinking and influence their actions, writes Dr Ntombifikile Mtshali.

Young children learn by imitating the behaviours of those around them, especially adults in their immediate environment. What they see and hear – they do.

While this is perfectly acceptable when it applies to the respectable traits and good habits that form the foundation of being a responsible citizen, it is not for those behaviours that are inappropriate, toxic and harmful.