Be adventurous

Try something you’ve never tried before, from something simple like trying new sex toys, to venturing into something wild. Get out of your sexual comfort zone; and you get to decide what you want to try first.

Make time for sex

Do some research with your partner once a month and look at new things to try. You don’t have to spend much and sometimes just looking can spark inspiration. Join in on sex workshops and visit expos with him where you learn how to have the big orgasm, foreplay, pleasuring your man and yourself.

Get to know your body

How can your partner please you if you don’t know how to please yourself? Explore your body to figure out what gets you off. Be sensual – start off with a bath, play some romantic music and get a non-scary looking vibrator because some of them look like something else these days.


Exercise your muscles down there, and they can do wonders for your sex life. By strengthening the muscles; you make your orgasms more exciting. Start by counting to 10 and then release the squeeze ten times a day, which you can do sitting or standing. So, squeeze those muscles for better orgasm.

Dress up for your partner

Remember when you started going out and you’d spend ages getting ready beforehand? Once a week, do whatever it takes to get that first date feeling; wax your legs, put on your heels, pick out your best dress and do whatever you would if you were off to impress the man of your dreams.