The hitmaker is set to tie the know with her partner Alex Rodriguez in the near future after he popped t he question in The Bahamas in March. But, she's been asking the 86-year-old lawyer, who is married for more than 50 years for the secret to a happy relationship.

J.Lo shared on her Instagram about what an honour it was to meet Ruth because she looks up to her as a person, a woman and a human being, but also as a wife, a working woman and a passionate advocate for equality for women and minorities.

Sharing the advice Ruth gave her for marriage she wrote: “Keep doing what you’re doing, inspiring people and living by example. You must continue to change the world with your respective gifts.” 

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