Love is a beautiful thing. It can make you feel on top of the world and like all the love songs are just for you and that your partner is the best thing to happen to you since sliced cheese. 

But how do you really know if your partner loves you? Do you like if they tell you constantly? Or if they hold your hand? Or if they give you flowers and chocolate unexpectedly? 

Well, this could all have to do with your love language. Gary Chapman says there are five languages in his book, The 5 Love Languages. These five love languages are receiving gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service (devotion), and physical touch.

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You could speak one or all of them, or yours could be very different from your partner’s, but the important thing is that you recognise that they could be different and that, in spite of that, you still know how to communicate your love in a way that shows your partner you love them.

So we asked our W24 readers to tell us some of the ways their partners do things for them that shows them love, and this is what they had to say:

So incredibly sweet, right? 

If you’re still not sure if what you’re doing is right way to show your partner your appreciation, then you and your partner could take this quiz to figure out what your love language is and then use one of the ideas below to make your partner see that you love them.

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If their love language is receiving gifts

You could splurge on expensive jewellery, yes, but for when it’s just an ordinary week day and you’re not made of money, you could buy them some flowers, or a chocolate or a second hand copy of their favourite book. Something small is still appreciated. 

If their love language is quality time

Then set aside time that is just for the two of you alone. Especially if you’ve had a hectic week where you don’t get to see each other and there’s all the admin of work, etc. you could take a day off work and have a pajama day where you watch movies and veg, or take a day trip somewhere just the two of you. If you’re pressed for time though, take an hour or two for a date on your own or just to sit and talk. 

If their love language is words of affirmation

Write them little notes that you leave on the bathroom mirror or put it in their lunchbox. Stop them in the middle of something and just tell them that they mean something to you, or send them a test in the middle of the day to tell them you love them and that they’re amazing. 

If their love language is acts of service

Take out the rubbish without being asked, do the dishes even if it’s their turn, take their car for a car wash when it gets dirty. Or do something for them you know they hate doing. 

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If their love language is physical touch

Hug them a lot. Touch them when you’re talking to them. Hold their hand when they’re least expecting it. Surprise them by initiating sex at a different time and/ or place than usual. Stop at a random place and give them a kiss. 

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