Unhappy couple.(PHOTO: GETTY IMAGES/GALLO IMAGES)
Question
I CAN’T LET GO OF MY LOVER
My husband and I have been going for counselling because we’ve been cheating on each other. I want to fix my marriage, but I can’t let go of my lover whom I’ve been seeing for the past six years. What should I do? ANONYMOUS, MIDRAND
Answer
Counselling will not be effective if you are not open and focused on what you want. Decide first whether you really want to commit to your marriage or not. Be true to yourself and challenge your fears or uncomfortable emotions.
