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Sexiest gifts for her this Christmas

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Men, your better halves would appreciate your special attention during the festive season.

Mind-blowing orgasms are an excellent place to start.

They're healthy, relieve stress and will make her feel great about herself and your relationship.

Let the Fifty Shades trilogy inspire you as a couple to brighten up your intimate moments by adding a "toy friend" into your bedroom antics.

Get ahead of the crowd by creating your very own sneak preview scenes from the forthcoming movie.

Vibrators
are an excellent place to start and we’re here to assist you in deciding which one to choose.

People bandy around words like the 'rampant rabbit', but what sets this little animal apart from other dildos and what else is on the market?

We understand that finding the ideal vibrator even for oneself, and particularly as a gift for the woman in one’s life, is not an easy task.

So we’re going to offer you a few pointers which should help you decide which of the various vibrators available will best have you pressing all her right buttons and showing her the time she deserves.

Clitoral vibrators

Clitoral vibrators provide sexual pleasure and enhance orgasm by external stimulation to the clitoris.

If the lady that you love reaches intense and satisfying orgasms during direct stimulation of the labia area, be sure to choose a vibrator that includes this form of arousal.

Look for a toy like the Je Joue Mimi Soft or We-Vibe Touch and incorporate these into your lovemaking. Use it on the clitoris while having intercourse to give her a fuller all round sensation.

Dildos and g-spot vibrators

Just in case you’re still not sure, the g-spot is located between 3 and 8 cm in on the front of the vaginal wall, more or less at the back of the clitoris.

If you’re looking for a gentle first toy in this category, the tiny, feminine, Bcute Classic is designed to hit this spot perfectly and doesn’t need to go in too deep. 

However, if you think your lady would prefer something slightly more substantial, try the Lelo Smart Wand.

Its shaft withstands firm pressure without flexing too much which means that when it is inserted into the vagina it cuddles up nicely to the g-spot.

The Rabbit

Because a rabbit vibrator is the ultimate multi-tasker, something that we females admire greatly and that can sometimes be a little challenging, this friendly fellow could quite easily become your greatest helpmate.

Both the design of the Smile Fancy and Smile Bunny, incorporates two vibrators of different sizes which work in unison to produce simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation.

The main shaft of a rabbit twirls for internal g-spot stimulation while the smaller ear concentrates on the outside clitoral area.  

We also suggest that you try toys like the Lelo Soraya or Whooper Swan for deliciously intense double whammy sensations.

When it comes to choosing a vibrator, don’t forget that desire and aesthetics are deeply entwined so always select a playmate that you and your partner will find sensually pleasing, sexually arousing and that will compliment your shared fantasies. Then forget about Shades of Grey and make love in Technicolor.

This article is by Lady Fay at Lady Fay's Boudoir, a safe place created by women to escape the everyday and liberate your saucy side with sexy lingerie and sex toys

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