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After spending so much physically-close time with your other half over the festive season, it’s going to be difficult to get back to the reality of going your separate ways every day, and, worse still, having to be apart for whole nights during business trips and other out of town commitments.
Maintaining intimate long-distance relationships are not easy and circumstances so often force modern couples to spend nights, weeks and sometimes even months at a time away from one another.
This becomes even more challenging if we’re experiencing different lifestyles, are on different continents and in different time zones during the separation.
Interestingly enough, if you make a mutually conscious decision to adapt your messages so that you both place lots of emphasis on relation-intense topics like the love and passion feel for each other, you could actually share more personal thoughts and feelings while apart than when you’re geographically in bed together.
After all, we all know that the brain is the biggest sex organ of all, and that good communication is the key to real intimacy, no matter where you are.
When you make the effort to keep your shared feelings of excitement and attraction alive, long distance relationships can be bonding, creatively satisfying and loads of fun.
Of course, imagination is critical, because it’s necessary to substitute physical closeness with erotic mental pictures so that both your sexual feelings and fantasies are stimulated without the two of you actually being able to touch each other.
Fortunately, achieving this has become so much easier now that we have the virtual world of cyberspace to remotely connect us.
The quality of your online encounters will depend very largely on your ability to be sexually explicit and inventive when describing your feelings and fantasies and responding to your partner’s.
Start off slowly by finding out what you’re both wearing and take off from there.
What can be very helpful is to introduce one or more of our top 3 sex toys which are particularly suited to long-distance relationships:
# 1 Take your Skype dates to the next level
Obviously online chat adds a fantastic extra dimension to cybersex. It means that the person you're getting it on with can hear your excitement and see you being turned on.
Let him see you touching yourself with the Whooper Swan, while you explain to him what you’re feeling. This elegantly stylish rabbit vibrator, with 2 powerful motors, is designed to stimulate your G-spot and tickle your clitoris simultaneously.
Both motors are discreetly quiet which will allow him to interject and push all your extra buttons without ever leaving cyberspace.
# 2 Feel his Touch while sexting
If you don’t have a web cam or mic and need to type your responses, a We-Vibe Touch vibrator will be of enormous assistance in your quest for sexual gratification.
This sex toy is super versatile and can do all things to all women while being operated with just one hand, leaving the other free to text.
The flame tip is hot for wonderful pin-point vibration and its curved underside is ideal for creating surround-sound stimulation down under. The Touch is also great for perking up your nipples and arousing any other erogenous zones.
With 8 modes, classy packaging and its own charger, the We-Vibe Touch will be a perfect stand in while he’s out of town, and the beauty is that the two of you can enjoy it together once he’s back in your arms.
#3 Make your Mimi time, time with him
Cybersex also gives one the opportunity to branch out and put oneself in situations that one wouldn't find all that comfortable with a partner physically present.
For instance, have sexual intercourse while sharing the bathtub with your man can be rather cramped and restrictive but, as long as you’re as creative as possible with your language, with your waterproof Je Joue Mimi clitoral stimulator in hand, you can stretch out in a fragrant bubble bath while the two of you chat each other up to your hearts’ content.
So, when you're in a long-distance relationship and the person you fancy best of all isn't within touching distance, don’t despair. Get on the Net or on your phone, grab your favourite toy and start working it.
You’ll find that conversex offers plenty of erotic options if you just allow your imagination to run wild while you keep a firm grip the right tool.
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