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Why not start your sex toy adventure this Valentine’s Day?

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If you, like so many adventurous couples enjoy mixing things up a bit and have secretly considered, or openly discussed, introducing a sex toy or two into your shared intimacies but haven’t done so because you’re not quite sure when would be a good time, Valentine’s Day is the perfect occasion to get the ball rolling.

You’re definitely going to want to get romantic wherever you find yourselves and you’ll want it to be as memorable as possible, so why not take this opportunity to experience the extra sexual sensations produced by couple’s sex toys like a penis ring, vibrating egg and or a couple’s vibrator.

There are dozens of excellent sex toys on the market and making a choice can be daunting.

However, if you follow our rules by keeping it simple for starters, and picking whatever suits your needs best and is both mentally and aesthetically titillating to the two of you, you’ll find that it’s plenty of fun and a lot less intimidating than you expected, and in no time you’ll be wondering why on earth you left it so long.

Just remember, at the same time as making your first purchase, to order a good water based lubricant like Nature Fresh Fragrance Free Lubricant or Whet Extra Virgin Lubricant and apply this generously so that everything is well oiled and runs smoothly.

If  you intend spending Valentine’s Day in the privacy of your bedroom then, in our experience, most couples get a huge kick out of breaking the ice a piece of jewellery, a wearable couples’ cock ring like the Je Joue Mio or Oden from Lelo.

Not only does it offer a gentle bit of constriction which gives him a firmer and longer-lasting erection, but the vibrating motor transfers these sensations down the shaft of his penis and in to your vagina.

If at the same time you introduce a fairly powerful vibrator externally against the base of his penis and on your clitoris it will provide some deeply resonant sensations during intercourse and of course adds a whole extra dimension to foreplay as well.

However should you plan to be out and about this Saturday and still want to keep that intimacy going, then vibrating eggs are just the trick.

They allow you and your partner to enjoy intriguingly covert sexual intimacy at arm’s length while having dinner or out in a crowd. 

For instance you can wear the Relentless Vibrations Remote Control Vibrating Egg from the Fifty Shades of Grey Collection internally and hand him the wireless controller.

Your partner will be able to control the vibration intensities just with a flick of his wrist at a range of anything up to 12 metres line of sight.

This sex toy will produce a series of infinitely variable vibrating patterns and the motor, which fits snugly inside the control, pulses in sync with the egg’s vibrations which mean that your partner shares in exactly what you’re feeling.

Then for those of you who might find yourselves in separate places this weekend but would still like to share special moments, we recommend the We-Vibe 4 Plus.

This is the latest couple’s toy in a long line of excellent toys by We-Vibe. It uses Bluetooth technology to sync with its app which is available for iPhones and androids.

This means that it can either be controlled by the button on the toy when in close quarters or the remote control and as the first hands-free device remotely controlled by the app, this enables  couples to turn their partners' vibration on and off from anywhere in the world

So, depending on your personal circumstances this Valentine’s Day, pick a toy that will make what the two of you already share even more special.

At the best of times we can always do with a little help from a friend.

This article is by Lady Fay at Lady Fay's Boudoir, a safe place created by women to escape the everyday and liberate your saucy side with sexy lingerie and sex toys

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