Solanges’ letter inspired a few thoughts of my own and in an attempt to become more introspective, here is a list of the 20 things to stop doing before my 20s. (I am 19 at the moment.)
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1. Trying that silly thing I googled
Those ridiculous at home egg masks? Stop it. Just use sunscreen every day and your skin will start clearing up after high school.
2. Thinking I need to lose weight
Trust me, just focus on making exercise a habit, because it gets harder with age.
3. Missing English lectures
Those take-home exams made me feel like an idiot.
4. Believing people’s words
Actions honestly speak louder.
5. Pretending to have a lot of responsibilities
I don’t but I will one day and then I will regret not enjoying these days more.
6. Thinking the world owes me something
It doesn't. I have one chance to create my dream life there is no reason for me to settle for anything less than I envisioned.
7. Making excuses for my laziness
Like the Nike ad just do it.
8. Listening in on my parent’s conversations
I’ll start understanding who they are talking about soon.
9. Thinking that my sister is broke
She’s not she just wants me to think she is so I don’t ask her for money.
10. Being paranoid
There is no one behind me, relax.
11. Doubting myself
I am like a floating pool of talents.
12. Giving myself fake paper French manicures
They don’t look real, at all.
13. Thinking my hair is horrible
I will love it when I go to university.
14. Stealing my little cousin’s ice cream
It made him cry eventually.
15. Doubting my instincts
They are accurate – especially in relationships.
16. Using karaoke soundtracks to practice my singing
They were designed to make me sound horrible.
17. Allowing mom to dress my sister and I in matching outfits
I am not her twin.
18. Saying I will never drink alcohol
I will one day, and that’s also okay.
19. Filling in my eyebrows with a black eyeliner
I look meme-ready.
20. Thinking I’m going to be young forever
I am going to grow up and I need to just enjoy the process. It will liberate me one day.