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"Am I a lesbian if I'm attracted to my husband’s sister and what do I do?"

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Troubled woman.  (PHOTO: GETTY IMAGES/GALLO IMAGES)
Troubled woman. (PHOTO: GETTY IMAGES/GALLO IMAGES)

Question

AM I LESBIAN?

I’m a married woman, but I recently started having feelings for my husband’s sister. Am I lesbian? ANONYMOUS, DURBAN

Answer

Attraction comes in many forms and is caused by different things.

Being attracted to somebody does not suggest that you need to have any relationship with the person.

It is out of choice that people act on their feelings. If you stay focused on the choice you made, which is getting married to your husband, you are likely to manage any other feelings towards other people

According to Pyschology today, “Researchers believe that women’s sexuality is more fluid or flexible than men’s. And although they do not believe that women are inherently bisexual, they believe that women’s sexual attraction can shift more easily than men’s.”

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