He hadn't meant to catch feelings. And now he's stuck.
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Dear Sis Dolly,
I’m a married man with two kids and a lovely wife.
I fell in love with another lady; she’s so lovely and is everything a man could dream of.
We’ve been in this relationship for three years.
She also helps me a lot.
I’ve tried many times to break up with her but I failed.
What do I do? – Confused
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Sis Dolly responds
How can you claim to love your wife when you’ve been cheating on her for three years?You’re also being unfair to your mistress by leading her on, knowing very well you have no intention of leaving your wife for her.
I don’t think you’ve tried hard enough to break up with her.
You’re being selfish because you enjoy having both sides of your bread buttered.
You need to make a decision about whether you want a second wife – that’s if your wife agrees to it.
If you don’t want a second wife, you need to decide who you want to spend the rest of your life with.
