Share

'One person can't be your entire world': Pink shares lessons from therapy and 17 years of marriage

accreditation
0:00
play article
Subscribers can listen to this article

  • Counselling plays an important role in helping marriages become successful.
  • Award-winning singer Pink has been married to Carey Hart since 2006.
  • The singer recently shared what she and her husband learnt at marriage counselling.

The 43-year-old superstar Pink - whose real name is Alecia Beth Moore - tied the knot with former motorcycle racer Carey Hart in 2006 and has Willow, 12, and six-year-old Jameson with him. As she took to the stage for the opening night of the UK leg of her summer tour, she revealed the pair have been going through therapy to deal with their issues. 

READ MORE | Drew Barrymore may try hallucinogenics to know why she's 'not open to a relationship'

Speaking live on stage at the University of Bolton Stadium, she said, "This is what they teach in marriage counselling: Remorse, regret, resolution!" However, the 'Never Gonna Not Dance Again' hitmaker was quick to joke that she is yet to start any of the new behaviours she has learned in therapy.

The 'So What' songstress - who endured a brief separation from Carey in 2008 before the couple reconciled the following year - previously explained that she and her husband had come to "expect less" of each other over the years. 

READ MORE | 'You're stuck with you': Cheryl Burke shares her biggest lessons in self-love following divorce

Has marriage counselling helped your marriage? Tell us your story here.


She told People magazine, "When you first get together, you look at that person as your entire world. One person can't be your entire world. You have to have your own passions, your own friends, your own time to yourself. I used to be super needy! Now we expect less of each other, and that allows us to give each other more somehow. Long-term relationships are not easy. It is much easier to stay in the solid days and jump from relationship to relationship because then you don't have to fix the problems that keep recurring. You have to end up fixing yourself; you can't fix the other person. I think partners, after a long time — I can't say it's a man and woman thing, I think it's a partner thing, a spouse thing — you just speak two different languages."


We live in a world where facts and fiction get blurred
Who we choose to trust can have a profound impact on our lives. Join thousands of devoted South Africans who look to News24 to bring them news they can trust every day. As we celebrate 25 years, become a News24 subscriber as we strive to keep you informed, inspired and empowered.
Join News24 today
heading
description
username
Show Comments ()
Editorial feedback and complaints

Contact the public editor with feedback for our journalists, complaints, queries or suggestions about articles on News24.

LEARN MORE